Disclaimer *I have not read this book, but I have done research on this topic, as well as research of this book.
We can not talk about virginity vs. purity, and not discuss the book 50 SHADES OF GREY. If you read my post about "50 Shades of Grace" yesterday, you may have wondered what the book 50 SHADES OF GREY is about.
We can not talk about virginity vs. purity, and not discuss the book 50 SHADES OF GREY. If you read my post about "50 Shades of Grace" yesterday, you may have wondered what the book 50 SHADES OF GREY is about.
Over 40 million people (mostly woman) are reading this book. Ironically, this book is not just pornographic but is also poorly written, (grammatically).
So why are woman reading it????
"It's scratching an itch."
Ladies are reading this thinking it will give them ideas regarding the sexual side of their marriage. "It will start a passion", they think.
HOWEVER, because it is a very erotic book and because woman are wired the way they are, the book is feeding a part of the woman that should only be fed by her husband.
When you are aroused (whether by your husband or reading a spicy book) you produce certain chemicals in your body. The chemicals that are produced when aroused bring you closer to what you are responding to. Those chemicals, that God gave us are supposed to draw your husband and you together and keep you together for a lifetime. That is not happening when you are aroused by a book or video instead of your husband.
Not only will this book eventually divide you but this book also promotes "harmful and perverted practices".
When you are aroused (whether by your husband or reading a spicy book) you produce certain chemicals in your body. The chemicals that are produced when aroused bring you closer to what you are responding to. Those chemicals, that God gave us are supposed to draw your husband and you together and keep you together for a lifetime. That is not happening when you are aroused by a book or video instead of your husband.
Not only will this book eventually divide you but this book also promotes "harmful and perverted practices".
Ladies, this book is detrimental to marriages. It starts a passion--but not for "more", it starts a passion for "different." Often this different does not include your husband.
Please, take the time to listen to these experts. Both of them are on the front lines, fighting for purity in marriages and in singleness. Please listen to this chat.... ( the 2nd part of this clip is fuzzy) To watch the first part go to: "Are There Really 50 shades of Grey? - Part 1 ...the 2nd part is below.
On a side note, if you are unmarried or an unfulfilled wife, go to a CHRISTIAN counselor to get help. God has given you permission to be sexual (read Song of Solomon). You are supposed to enjoy your husband. If you are not, you need to seek counsel.
Don't read 50 SHADES to try to find help!
Don't read 50 SHADES to try to find help!
God created us to respond to our husbands. This is a gift. Don't ignore it or set it aside. For free counseling or to get a recommendation for a counselor in your area, call Focus on the Family 1-800-A-FAMILY - Rejoicing in the Present
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